everyone either hates people with bpd or romanticizes them, i told some girl about my ex and how he was my first hardcore fp that i got extremely attached to and she was like “that’s so cute, i wish i had a fp” no, no you don’t. this man was someone i dated for two months and i was completely and utterly obsessed with him, despite the sa, the abuse, the gaslighting, the cheating, i still was in love with him. it took my current fp telling me all the wrong that happened for me to stop feeling that way for him. it’s not cute to have a favorite person for some people with bpd. i stayed in a toxic relationship because i thought what he was doing to me was love. it was abuse. please stop romanticizing and sexualizing something that people with bpd can’t control. some people like me have dark pasts when it comes to favorite people and it is rude when you say something like “aw that’s so cute” no it wasn’t. it’s not cute to be obsessed with someone who is toxic for you.
“omg why do you hate someone so much they didn’t do anything to you???”
they took my fps attention off me thats reason enough:))
